A pretty good weekend, especially considering the fact that things felt a little “cut N paste” together due to so much attention on our Believe retreat.

ATTENDANCE: Attendance was a little low. Again, I think this may have been due to lots of kids who went to the retreat may have skipped church upon their return.

FUN FACTOR: Pretty high. Our lesson was around the idea of learning to grow on your own and we did a good job of tying much of our program into the theme.

LESSON: David Hughes, one of our college-aged volunteers taught the bulk of the lesson after a short video set-up by me. He did an AMAZING job; one of the best JH lessons I’ve heard in a really long time.

MUSIC: Music was great! Probably a little mellower than usual, but the band was tight, the kids singing blended well together.

VOLUNTEER INVOLVEMENT: Very low. Because so many leaders went to Believe, most of them didn’t show back up for the weekend program which made things a bit rough around the tables.

The truth is, I’m a pretty laid-back guy and really don’t get too worked up over much. But there are a few things recently that have bothered me a little bit. For instance:

SHAVING: the whole process is such a bother which is why I choose to only shave once a week or for an important meeting. Electric razors don’t work well and traditional blades are a hassle.

MY COMPUTER SCREEN: I have a brand new lap-top that seems to be pretty nice (I know nothing about computers so maybe it’s really a turd), but whenever I am in battery mode, the screen flickers ever so slightly….not enough to be a major problem, just enough to bother me a bit.

850 BILLION DOLLARS: I’m no economist, and I really don’t understand how we got into this mess or what the best way to get out of it is, but 850 BILLION Bucks maybe fix it? That bothers me.

FEET: Mine are gross, and I imagine most people feel the same way about theirs. The fact that I have to try to “un-gross” my feet bothers me.

MEETINGS: They usually don’t accomplish much but everybody seems to think we need them which is why I have to stop this post short….I’m late for one. Meetings bother me and me being late for meetings bothers other people.

About once a month or so (and by “or so” I mean once a month…once every-other month…once a quarter….whenever I get around to it!) I shoot a short, 10-15 minute, video podcast dealing with various topics related to junior high ministry. If you’ve never seen one, you can find the archive here. The goal for each podcast is to give a quick little bit of insight and share some of my learnings on any given topic.

Here’s where I could use your help: What are some topics you think other JH youth workers are wrestling through? What do the paid “Point People” struggle with? How about their volunteers? What might a part-time youth worker in a mid-size church want some insight into? How about the “point person” who is also a volunteer in a small church?

Got up early to go riding on Monday and didn’t have time to post, and yesterday was a full day and I simply forgot! So, some basic catching up here:

THE WEEKEND:
I twittered that last weekend was like the titanic….big, elaborate etc. that somehow hit an iceberg. It really wasn’t any one single thing that went wrong, but more like several little ice bergs that slowly sank us!
- We forgot several things for the program and had to scramble to get them in place.
- The crowd was bigger than normal combined with fewer than normal adult leaders.
- The crowd was rowdier than normal.
- We had a ‘guest’ speaker who was GREAT, but was new to our stage.
- The fire alarm went off in the middle of the lesson causing a ton of confusion (false alarm).
- All in all, one of the tougher weekends….specifically our Saturday night service.

JR. HIGH BELIEVE:
I am super excited about this weekend’s Believe event! For the first time, we are taking a group of students to this incredible conference. If you haven’t heard of Believe, you really do need to consider taking your students when it comes to your area, which it will because they have something like 14 different tour stops. Believe is a 24-hour event designed specifically for junior highers.

SCOTT RUBIN:
On a selfish note, I may be most excited about Believe because my buddy, Scott Rubin is the speaker (I typically speak at a few Believe [...]

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Not sure why, but this little video made me giggle like a 3rd grader.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65I0HNvTDH4

p.s. sorry, but I’m having trouble embedding a video…thus a link.

(S.O. to Rhonda. I don’t like the ‘hat tip’, so I use the shout out)

The playing of games in youth ministry has a long history, it also has a long history of being debated and questioned. Are they valid? What role do they really play? Should they always be tied into the lesson or bigger learning of some sort? Do they reinforce an already unhealthy atmosphere of competition in our culture? Those are great questions, and certainly worth considering. But for the sake of this post, I’m going to assume most junior high youth groups still engage in some sort of game playing in your ministry. And I’m going to assume that your game playing has resulted in frustration, confusion and chaos more than once. In Controlled Chaos, I wrote a little section on games. Here are some of my thoughts:

Be Energetic
If you’re excited about a game, students will be too. An excited leader can get a group of junior high students excited about virtually any game…even one as cheesy as the Life-Saver/Toothpick relay. It’s how a game’s played that makes it fun, not the game itself.
The bottom line: The energy of the staff will dictate the energy of the students.

Be Organized
Make sure you know how to play the game before you unleash it on your students. Be sure to gather the proper supplies ahead of time. If a student is going to get messy, bring a towel or change of clothes. If the rules of the game call for 50 balloons, make 75. If the game time is part of [...]

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-Because I spent all day yesterday riding with buddies, I didn’t have chance to post a weekend wrap up. In a nutshell: A great weekend! Week 2 of our friendship series. Sitting around tables is going well.

- Inauguration was awesome. While I don’t agree with many of Obama’s policies (or at least what we think will be his policies), I really, really like the guy.

- I thought Rick Warren’s prayer was really powerful. Of course the criticism from far left and far right will continue. But Christian haters and petty Christians will always find a reason to have a beef with Warren.

- I also really liked the prayer at the end. Although the references to various colors of races at the closing was odd, I felt.

- If you haven’t seen Slum Dog Millionaire, you need to. It may be the best movie I’ve seen in years.

- Any local JH pastors going to “Believe” next weekend?

There are two GREAT conferences just around the corner, and they both have a distinct “flavor”. If you are able to attend a conference this year I think either PDYM or Group’s National Youth Ministry Conference would be well worth the investment.

National Youth Ministry Conference (February 27 – March 2)
This is a national youth ministry event with an intentionally intimate feel. You get a large crowd, well known speakers and trainers, and tons of super cool ‘extras’. But what Group manages to do better than anybody else is make a big conference feel intimate and conversational.

PDYM (March 24-27)
After a short break, the Purpose-driven Youth Ministry Conference is back! What sets PDYM apart is that it is a church-based conference Led entirely by Doug Fields and Saddleback’s youth team.Other than Fields, there aren’t any “heavy hitters”. Over three days, Saddleback’s team will give you an up-close look at their youth ministry as well as amazing training on how to implement the 5 purposes into your own ministry setting. Spaces are limited, so if this is the event for you, don’t wait to sign up.

Every now and then when I put my head together with the people over at Simply Junior High, we come up with a decent resource for junior high youth leaders. Recently, we have started created stuff with the students themselves in mind. Really, the desire to write for students started when I partnered with Mark Ostreicher on the Middle School Survival Series a couple years ago. Recently, I wrote the first of what I hope will be many ‘10-minute moments’ devotional book geared toward young teens.

And now the newest, shortest, cheapest, and easiest-to-read books for students yet are hot off the presses. And because I like the simple stuff, I think they are my favorite resources SJH has created in a long time!

“99 Thoughts About Guys…For Girls Eyes Only” gives girls 99 super short, but super insightful tidbits of insight into the world of guys. Katie Edwards, who I have worked with for almost a dozen years, provides some fun female commentary.

“99 Thoughts About Girls…For Guy Eyes Only” gives guys 99 short, but super insightful tidbits of insight into the world of girls. Katie wrote this one, and I provided the male commentary.

What I love about both of these little “books” is that they can be read by a student in about 20 minutes. But in that short time, they will get a whole bunch of really useful insight to help them build stronger friendships with the opposite sex.

I’ve noodled on this quite a bit, and feel like there’s much more to it than a blog post, but I will toss this out there in a less-than-thought-out form.

On one hand, I believe that every leader has a “terminal velocity” to their leadership capacity and abilities. In other words, we each have a speed, pace of life, maximum capacity, maximum level of influence etc. that we reach and we simply can’t go any faster, do more stuff etc. Like a bowling ball falling from the sky, at some point we max out. Your “terminal velocity” may be different than mine, but we all have it….at least I tend to think that’s the case.

But, on the other hand, when the power of Christ is moving in us we are capable of far more than our natural skills would ever allow. Think about Peter…certainly in the flesh, his terminal velocity was limited. He was an un-educated fisherman. Then Christ entered his life.

But we all know of Godly leaders who seem to “max out”. Don’t confuse “max out” with “burn out”. I’m talking about Godly men and women who are spiritually and emotionally fresh, with tons of vision and ideas etc. that simply reach a limit to what they can accomplish….their leadership and ministry terminal velocity can’t do more.

But, I can do ALL things through Christ, right?